
There is something I do always. I am a content creator, I’m sure you know that already. For every piece I create, I applauded myself. I say to myself you are good. I scream wow!😂 . I text my clients long messages and ask them to anticipate the bomb I’m dropping.
When I take a 2 hour free course and get a certificate, I first stand up clap for myself then I post on LinkedIn and everywhere possible.
Why ? BECAUSE NO ONE WILL EVER APPRECIATE YOU OR YOUR WORKS LIKE YOU DO!
Self recognition or appreciation is certainly important to me. It’s my vitamin shoots to boost my confidence. When I look in the mirror I tell myself you are beautiful, you can do whatever you set your mind to. This way, my mind is already tuned in a particular way and anyone that comes my way with the intention of intimidating me already lost why? Because deep down I know I am
When you reply on people’s view about you you’d always be unstable.
Take a look at this
Ama is about to leave for a class before she heads out Aminwaa her roommate tells her she looks beautiful in her blue floral dress. Sedem on her way to the bus met Nana Yaa one of her closest friends and Nana Yaa passes a comment “hm, this dress is not so good on you”, but because Ama is in a hurry to catch the bus she is not able to change her clothes.
Now Ama is confused because
- She didn’t think she looked nice
- Animwaa said she looked beautiful
- Nana Yaa passed an unpleasant comment about her dressing.
What happens to Ama?
- Low self confidence
She will be afraid to walk or hide in her corner because she feels she is not looking good. - She will have a bad day
Sedem will try to hide all day so no one else tells her about how “ugly” she looks.
What if Sedem told her self she looked beautiful none of these would have happened besides Nana Yaa might have said that our of jealousy.
Be proud of yourself
Cheer yourself up
Speak good words to your self
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